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Holding on is believing that there's only a past; letting go is knowing that there's a future.

Daphne Rose Kingma

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Hey Reader,

Pressure’s in the air, and I thought I’d say something about it.

I don’t want you to finish this year strong. I want you to finish it light.

Lighter than a feather, floating effortlessly to the ground.

You’ve probably been hearing it all month: "Finish the year strong."

"Push to the finish line." Everywhere you turn, someone’s telling you to sprint, to hustle, to end the year with a bang.

But here’s the thing—sometimes, that’s not the answer.

So many of us know "strong." We know how to push through.

We've done it for years, maybe even decades. We've built entire lives on doing things the hard way.

But here’s the truth: Many of us are already burnt out. We’re tired—not just from work, but from life itself.

Maybe you’re feeling the pressure to “finish strong” because you think there’s unfinished business.

Maybe you feel like you could’ve done “more” this year, or been “better.”

Maybe you’re facing the end of this year with an unresolved wound, one that’s been there from the beginning of the year—maybe it’s still bleeding quietly, or perhaps it's scabbing over, but it's still there.

You’re thinking, “This year is almost over—I should have it together by now. I should be past this.”

I’m working with a client right now, and he’s carrying a weight that no one should have to carry.

He’s put so much pressure on himself to keep going, to keep strong, that the idea of falling apart just isn’t an option.

But that’s exactly what he needs to do.

And the thing is, he doesn’t know how.

He’s been holding it all together for so long that he doesn’t even know where to begin in letting go.

This is what the world tells us about strength but it’s really just an overprotection.

A guard around ourselves is so high that we forget who we are beneath it. It keeps us trapped in a cycle.

We’re taught to push past the pain, to keep moving even when it hurts, because there are always people benefiting from your strength—except you.

But here’s the unsettling truth.

The world that profits from your unyielding strength doesn’t care about your well-being.

It thrives off your hustle, your exhaustion, your endless cycle of "doing."

It thrives off your fear of being vulnerable, of stepping back, of letting go.

But this December—this final month—I’m asking you to do something radically different.

Let go. Let it all fall. Let the pressure release from your chest.

For those of you who struggle with control, I know—it’s not easy. But it’s necessary.

Reader, what could it feel like to breathe deeply without that pressure?

What might happen if you let go just a little bit more today?

Letting go isn’t about weakness. It’s about reconnecting with the part of you that knows how to live freely and fully.

It’s about stepping into your truest self, shedding the layers that don’t serve you anymore, and allowing the space for something new to grow.

You’ve been strong for so long, and now it’s time to let that strength guide you toward peace.

The world wants to tell you that you have to be "strong" all the time.

But your true strength lies in your ability to soften, to relax, to allow yourself the grace to rest.

You don’t need to hustle through your healing.

You don’t need to earn your right to peace.

This December, instead of pushing harder, let yourself breathe.

Embrace the softness of surrender.

Trust that the world will still spin without your constant pushing.

And when the year turns, you will be ready—not to sprint, but to step forward gently, with clarity, ease, and joy.

To help you with this journey, I've created this downloadable checklist that you can download for free: Lighten Up: 30 Days to Living Light & Emotionally Free.

Click the button below to download and save the checklist so you can track your daily progress.

This simple 30-day checklist is designed to help you embrace lightness by releasing what no longer serves you.

Over the next four weeks, we’ll focus on letting go of guilt, stress, and emotional weight, while also connecting to your body and building more self-compassion.

Your next chapter is waiting, and it starts with letting go.

I’d love to hear your thoughts!

Share what came up for you as you read this, and keep me updated on your progress as you work through the checklist.

*Please note, if you're experiencing any tech issues with the checklist, let me know immediately.

See you on the other side of change.

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With Love,

Frantzces

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